Being anti-social is a burning problem of younger generation today. Although it may seem like some people are naturally more sociable than others. The truth is that all human beings are social and they can be trained to become more social. Listen to the following speech and improve your social behaviours.
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If we have a scientific approach about mental and physical situations of an anti-social person, we will have to consider about more facts before making him anti-social.
Better childcare to stop being anti-social
If there is an anti-social man, the people around him should consider his physical and mental situation.
When a child is growing up, it is suggested that lack of physical affection and care could cause to make him abnormal. The brain’s scan offers a new way of revealing the effects of exposer to chronic stress and violence of children. Doctors and social workers should try to bring the teenager to the community. Even we should give a chance to our children to make friendships with each other. It can help them to stop resolving into bad habits related to anti-social behaviour.
Behaviour of an anti-social person can be resolved. This can be done through studying, the neurology or genetics as they can involve in crimes.
Moreover, we should think another matter, as younger generation is being looked after by parents in a particular way. They are depriving the association with the neighbours controlling their joyful feelings. This causes them to be antisocial.
Improve your skill of facing the situation in front of others
To become social you have to be forced yourself to face the situation that may feel you uncomfortable. You can follow the talking tips how to talk in front of audience or when being with friends. You have to be firm not to be nervous.
Doing some team works
When you have bonds with teammates, it is a fine way to meet people. You have to make a bond with friends or teammates using smooth words carefully. You are the responsible person to do it. So, if you have onds with them, you will have funny things to talk about. Meet people in your area who like things which you are also passionate about.
Try to meet such people having some confidence on you.
Making new friends
It is very important to know how to tackle people around you, when you are going about. Don’t be afraid! When you start conversation with someone, try to select common topics. Then, as you start talking more, you can branch out other topics.
Even though, it may feel you nervous, you pay attention and just do it without missing someone special.
Before, starting a conversation, you make sure you’re trying to be friendly with people similar to you.
So, you have to think that it is not necessarily being friendly with everybody. That doesn’t mean being social. So, you can’t please everybody.
You know, it’s more rewarded to have small circle of meaningful friends than to have hundred cheap friends. When you are at a social function, don’t go to make friends who are more social and hard spoken. You have to be friendly with soft spoken people who would love to make friendship with you.
Remember not to express views on religions, politics and racial problems. If the person you are talking is genuinely not interested try to stop continuing the same topic. Another thing,
As a start, you can smile and say ‘hello’ to anyone, you meet, and you make a smooth conversation as far as possible.
Don’t be fed up, with the people whom you dislike. But try to hide your unwillingness towards them. However, at the end of the meeting someone, try to make a heartfelt memory in him on your meeting.
The best strategies to develop on your own to overcome your weaknesses
Beating shyness
Shyness is deeply wired into your emotions. It takes long time to overcome shyness by learning to build confidence. So, I recommend you to focus on learning what shyness is preventing you from doing something. Key is the competence for that. The more you know about how the social world works and the less discouraging makes you will make.
If you feel shy to go to a party, try to go early. You will get used to the surrounding before it gets crowded with people.
On the other hand, if you are nervous to participate in a party. You contact another companion to accompany with you. Then, you will feel comfortable at these social situations.
Be less critical
Don’t be criticizing yourself calling you are antisocial. Normally unconfident and anti-social people try to focus on their own shortcoming destroying their own dignity.
You have to do just small thing to be positive. You can prepare a list of your own positive qualities including intellectual emotional and physical abilities. Start good habits reminding them on a daily basis. So, try to encounter the negative thoughts related to anti-social behaviours reducing them on you as you can.
If you want to become a social person, you have to believe that you are social. With these matters, you have to deal with loving, kind, forgiving and accepting creatures.
Don’t over think your interactions
Over thinking is usually what prevents people from enjoying socially.
Rather than analysing someone’s behaviour, it is easy to forget the happenings without being worried. If you can crack a joke, exciting others, making them laugh, it will reflect your ability of being social as well as others.
You have to be fully engaged
Normally you have to show that you are interesting in others. Specially, when you are in the middle of a conversation keep listening to what they are saying without worrying about what you want to say.
Try to make good eye contact, nod your head and ask them follow up questions for continuing the conversation not to break the flow of conversation.
Helping the others when they are doing social works
This is a great opportunity for you. It makes to develop good opinion on your behaviour among others. So, your mental situation may be strengthening due to the interaction. Keeping this chance on your hands, you can gather good people more and deliver your thoughts being a right minded person on the earth.
Applying above matters, you can only stop being anti-social. If you feel you are not functioning socially at your maximum, you can try to enlarge your social skill as far as possible.
My sole idea of this presentation is to build a good opinion on the people who are victimized by this misery. I wish my presentation will be helpful to promote their social status. If so, I feel that my goal is achieved.
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